There's Nothing Casual About Me (And I'm Not Sorry About It)
There is nothing casual about me or being in my presence.
And I will not pretend that I am a low maintenance person. Far from it.
I take connection seriously. I cherish them as sacred, divine, blissfully pleasurable experiences.
So half-hearted energy, nonchalant behavior or it’s not that serious surface-level interaction get cut off quick. I know exactly what I want and I know without a doubt I’m worthy of it. Compromising on that is no longer an option I give to people nor up for debate about its legitimacy.
If you are in my energy, know that is an honor because I’m going to mirror, replicate and reciprocate what is poured into me.
My openness, vulnerability and the way I soften in your company isn’t just something I do to pass the time. It’s a commitment to only surround myself with those who have the willingness and capability to do the same.
I love hard and I make no apologies about that.
I’m passionate about those who are in my circle.
And I will fight an unholy war, side-by-side those I love.
Yet I have no reservations about separating myself from people and environments that wage constant battles that question my loyalty, my worth or why they are a presence in my life.
So no, I don’t do casual.
I don’t do surface-level connections without a clear intention or direction.
I don’t do low maintenance relationships. So come with a tool box and let’s get to work.
My heart doesn’t allow for it because I show up fully. I nurture connections fiercely. I love completely or not at all.
And that type of kind of depth cannot be held by hole-filled cups, shallow vessels, or any container already filled with toxic water.
If you struggle with differentiating between connections that nurture and ones that drain, setting boundaries that protect, not alienate and saying not without guilt–I want you to know I’ve been there.
My lived experience led me to create my transformative Becoming Framework coaching program and I’m opening the doors–just for you–in late January.
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