Helping midlife women reset, heal, and consciously curate a life of well-being, beauty, and soft abundance

You’re not too late—the glow-up begins here

Hey queen, I'm Shonnon.

After almost 20 years of marriage, I found myself standing at a crossroads in midlife—unsure and scared yet determined to start again. What I discovered was that starting over isn’t about erasing the past because that’s where your wisdom comes from. It’s about unbecoming what no longer fits, and stepping into the fullness of who you were always meant to be.

Through my writing, coaching, lifestyle content and embodiment work through sensual movement and pole dancing, I guide women in midlife who are ready to release “good enough” and claim a life designed around well-being, beauty, and soft abundance.

Read My Story

On the Blog → Inspiration for Your Reset

Whether you’re craving a fresh start, a softer way of living, or a spark of style and beauty, you’ll find something here to inspire your next chapter.

An arrangement of blush pink roses and greenery for a grieving ritual
African American woman style with a pink tutu skirt and heels

Courageous stories and tools for starting over

Practical ways to create peace and balance

Creating your soft power look in harmony with your becoming

Movement practices that reconnect you to your body, pleasure, and inner power

becoming h.e.r. by design

My coaching and courses live under Becoming Her By Design — a guided pathway for midlife women who are ready to stop settling, reclaim their birthright of well-being, and step fully into the life they were designed to live.

Inside BHBD, you’ll find transformational programs, workshops, and tools that help you release guilt, reclaim your softness, and design a life that feels both aligned and abundant.

Start Your Reset Today

Ready for a fresh start but not sure where to begin? Download my free journal “Aligned Restart” and take the first step toward coming home to yourself.

how will you begin reclaiming your well-being?