Are You Up to Speed on How to Allow Yourself to Surrender?
True surrender is freaking hard Queens! It requires things out of us that we quite honestly may not expect and may not be quite ready for. Yet when we reach a place along our journey where we know intuitively that we have to let that ish go, we are wiling to do it anyway because we know what lies behind us and we’re not doing that anymore.
I want you to be squarely rooted in the the knowing you got this. This means that we have to cut off all paths that lead back to whatever it is we need to surrender. We have to firmly believe that there is no option to go back to the old ways.
So in this post, I want to share with you what surrender is and what it will require of you to let go and let God, Universe, Source (however you resonate).
“Surrender means we have to firmly believe that there is not option to go back to the old ways.”
Surrender is making an active choice over and over again to say “this way of thinking, doing, being, believing, feeling and just surviving no longer contributes to the purpose of living a life that feels damn good to my soul” and actually letting it go.
Surrender is the ability to yield without condition. To abandon the versions of you that are no longer needed as you continue down your path. To silence the noise of the ego that goes against what your heart knows to be true. To take back the power to create your file by giving up the resistance that you allowed to steal your power in the first place.
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Surrender is being able to open your heart fully so that I can be filled with an unquestionable faith that has the means to overcome any fear or doubt that arises and provided you with assurance that you are totally worthy of love fro yourself, God/Universe/Source and others.
Surrender is about no longer being afraid to take a deep and honest look at the gaping wounds that you have lost opportunities for happiness to and have allowed you to bleed on, mistreat and mishandle people that didn’t cause them. Then taking it a step further to accept and heal them.
“Surrender is when you stop trying to understand why your heart is pushing you to do certain things and instead, you just do it.”
Surrender is finding love within you that has no parameters, letting if flow freely so that you can free yourself from the fear, judgment and shame of fiercely and courageously allowing yourself to love others.
Surrender is the bravery to cut the cord of attachment to the past and old perceptions so that you become fully present in and make choices from this moment.
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Surrender is when you stop trying to understand why your heart is pushing you to do certain things and instead, you just do it without expectation for a certain outcome, for closure, for forgiveness, for an apology, or reconciliation.
It’s coming to the realization that you aren’t really giving up anything. Surrender is about allowing yourself to claim and make space for what has always been yours to come into or re-enter your reality.
So Queen, are you now ready to surrender that pain, those thoughts and feelings of guilt, resentment and anger so that you are no longer blocking the path to the life you want to create? I truly hope so!
I would love to hear your takeaways or any AHA moments you may have received in the comments.
And remember to be unapologetically you.
