About Me

Who I Am

Hi, I’m Shonnon Nicole (pronounced Shawn-non)—and I’m becoming.

I’m a midlife woman unapologetically returning to herself, and I created Becoming Shonnon Nicole to help other women do the same.

I’m a certified Master Life Coach that specialies in Midlife Transformation, fashion and graphic designer, homeschooling single mom of five, and an aerialist whose first love is pole dance. I’m also a Scorpio sun, Splenic Projector, and a divine feminine woman learning to lead from her intuitive authority—not perfection. I’m not here to pretend I have all the answers. I’m here to walk with you in the messy, magical process of becoming who you were always meant to be.

My blog and coaching practice are rooted in the belief that well-being, beauty, joy, and success are your birthright—not something you earn by self-abandonment or playing a role that no longer fits. This space is for women in midlife who are ready to come home to themselves, claim their power, and design a life that actually feels good. On their terms.

There was a time I disappeared into the background of my own life.
I gave everything to everyone else, and somewhere along the way—I lost me.
But eventually, the whisper to return to myself got louder than the noise of expectations.

That was the pivot. That was the beginning of my becoming.

Now, I live at the sacred intersection of structure and sensuality, of groundedness and play, of shadow and light. I’m building a life that’s emotionally honest, spiritually aligned, and rich in self-trust, creativity, and unapologetic pleasure. I believe in dancing between the masculine and feminine, in resting as much as I rise, and in creating a life that nourishes my well-being—so that I can serve from overflow.

And that’s what I want for you, too.

This space is for you if…

You’ve been living a life that no longer resembles who you really are
You’ve veered off course from the woman your soul keeps calling you to be
You’re exhausted from surviving, and ready to start thriving
You crave a life designed around your values, not someone else’s expectations
You’re ready to be the main character in your own story again
You want to be free to be both soft and strong, mother and muse, stillness and storm

Then Queen, you are not here by accident.
This is a divinely-timed invitation to reclaim your power. To become.

To become the woman who…
✨ Listens to her intuition and trusts it.
✨ Chooses her well-being without guilt.
✨ Honors her sensuality without shame.
✨ Releases the conditioning that taught her to stay small, quiet, or palatable.
✨ Loves herself whole—with grace, compassion, and curiosity.
✨ Calls back her scattered pieces and builds something beautiful from them.
✨ Creates a life that turns her the f*ck on.

Through my coaching at Becoming H.E.R. By Design, I help you:

HEAL the foundational relationship with yourself,
EVOLVE past the guilt, fear, shame, and lack that once kept you stuck,
RE-ALIGN with your authentic self and the abundance that is already yours.

This isn’t just mindset work. It’s soul work.
It’s unlearning, unbinding, and unbecoming everything that was never you—
so that you can become H.E.R.

Whether you’re starting over after decades, navigating a major life pivot, or simply craving more alignment, I’m here to support your journey from survival to sovereignty

Let’s journey together.

Through the blog, the coaching, the stories, the raw truths and revelations—I offer you a safe, empowering space to remember who you are.
To rise.
To play.
To create.
To thrive.

You don’t have to do it perfectly. You just have to be willing to begin.

Because your becoming was never meant to look like anyone else’s.
And your next chapter? It gets to feel as beautiful as it looks.

With deep love,

Founder of Becoming H.E.R. by Design